As Solomon ends the introduction, he lays a foundation that all other Proverbs will be based upon: “the fear of the Lord.” This is a theme that will be repeated often throughout the Book of Proverbs. In addition, Solomon encourages us to listen to instruction and advice. These two concepts are crucial to gaining wisdom. … Continue reading Learning a Father’s Wisdom (Proverbs 1:7-9)
How to Shoot Your Children
In Psalm 127:3-5, Solomon tells us the blessings of being a parent by describing children as arrows in a warrior’s quiver. In times past, arrows have been used to win battles, put meat on the table, and win competitions. Whatever the task, though, diligence and focus are required for an arrow to hit its mark. Like arrows, … Continue reading How to Shoot Your Children
Learning a Father’s Wisdom (Proverbs 1:1-6)
“My son, don’t forget my teaching, but let your heart keep my commandments . . . (Proverbs 3:1 WEB). Much of the Book of Proverbs is presented as a father imparting wise advice to his son. Fathers are intended to pass on wise advice to their children, but to do so, we first need wise … Continue reading Learning a Father’s Wisdom (Proverbs 1:1-6)
The Best Part of My Day
I like the nighttime—I always have—and while it isn’t always the best part of my day, it usually is. This is when I get to put my children to bed. It’s not that I want to get rid of them or I am tired of them. What I like about putting my children to bed … Continue reading The Best Part of My Day
It’s Time to Man Up
What is a Man? Is he strong and tall? Is he someone who is talented and plays ball? Is he someone who is hardened and tough? Is he someone who smokes and drinks and swears enough? Is he someone who chases women with a quest to conquer without dropping his guard? Is he someone with … Continue reading It’s Time to Man Up
Don’t Haunt Your House
This time of year, many people are lining up to enter haunted houses. They want to see the costumes and effects, spend time with their friends, and hopefully have that adrenaline rush that comes when we get startled or scared. While visiting haunted houses may seem like a fun time, could you imagine living in … Continue reading Don’t Haunt Your House
The Best Way to Teach Modesty
My wife shared with me last year a post from a missionary’s wife from Tanzania who wrote on her Facebook page after coming to the states on furlough. Her post said, “I asked [my five-year-old daughter] to tell me something that she noticed different between America and Africa. The first thing she said… ‘Here I … Continue reading The Best Way to Teach Modesty
Lessons I Want My Son to Carry into Adulthood
I preface this simply by saying that I have far too imperfectly modeled these lessons far too often, but I maintain their worthiness. The world is rooting for our children to fail and fall, but the Word is written to counteract that! Prayerfully consider the following: –Character Is More Important Than Charm And Charisma –Hard Work … Continue reading Lessons I Want My Son to Carry into Adulthood
6 Proverbs on Parenting
Aside from the Bible itself, the primary teachers children are given for religious instruction are their parents–not their preacher, elders, youth minister, or Sunday school teachers. Parents must instruct their children in God’s ways, especially the father. God’s Word is what gives us the wisdom and instruction to fulfill this responsibility well. Consider the advice offered by … Continue reading 6 Proverbs on Parenting
Proactive Fathers Make the Difference
Someone once said, “Small boys become big men through the influence of big men who care about small boys.” The same statement is true for our sweet daughters. It should not be a secret to any parent reading this article today that we are in a fathering crisis. Fathers all across the world are turning … Continue reading Proactive Fathers Make the Difference
